How To Talk To Girls
When you’re talking with girls you want to display your most attractive features or characteristics. You want to try and create a genuine and sincere connection with her during your conversation.
How do you do this:
- Eye Contact and Smiling - The and most effective way of creating a connection with her is by maintaining eye contact and smiling. By smiling at her you will be showing her the most attractive version of yourself. Additionally by maintaining eye contact you will be able to show that you’re interested in her and she will feel that you are really listening to her - which is naturally a good idea!
- Show An Interest In Her - next you must show a true genuine and sincere interest in her. This is accomplished by asking her questions about herself. Everyone enjoys talking about themselves so if you have her talking about herself and sharing herself, she will feel like you’re really getting to know her and are interested in what she has to say.
Follow up questions - However it is not enough to just ask her basic questions such as where she is from how long she’s been living here, where her family lives, what she does for work… Instead when you ask her one of these questions you must follow it up with 2 or 3 further questions.
For example, let’s say you ask her where she was from. Then she responsds that she is from Boston. Next you need to ask her how long she’s been living here, how does she like it here, what brought her out here, if her family is here,… Typically I recommend 2 to 3 follow-up questions and then you must answer your questions. Using the aforementioned example you would then say yes I’ve been living in Boston for the past 3 years I came out here for work I love it out here…
This way she feels like she is getting to know you when you answer your own questions. As well as you getting to know her when you’re asking her questions. You will also be showing that you are genuinely interested in her because you are asking follow-up questions, that you have a positive outgoing attitude because you’re smiling, and that you are confident because you are maintaining eye contact with her.
It will help if you plan mental conversations before you approach women. For instance before you go out and start talking to women you should think of 2 or 3 topics to begin your conversations with. So when you approach a beautiful woman and you begin the conversation you not only have somewhere to start with but you also have 2 or 3 other things to discuss in case you run out of material. There is nothing like the deer in headlights feeling’s when you don’t have anything left to say.
Surprisingly women aren’t that much different than men however they don’t want her to feel like she is doing you a favor by having a conversation. Instead you should expect her to want to talk with you, and if not its her loss. This fact is true you are one of the good genuine and sincere men in the world and are wanting to treat this girl the right way - you must believe this. And will have to before anyone else will.
Who we are, what we want, our dreams, our goals, our aspirations, our passions, our interests, are all things that women just like men want someone to share that with and someone that shows an interest in us… When in doubt remember the old saying
"He Who Hesitates Masturbates”
Lastly in every conversation you have with a woman you should look back and critique yourself. For instance examine the rough spots, and the smoth spots and obiously try to minimize the negative and increse the postive. And remember pickup lines never work at best you can hope for a laugh and then you will still need to introduce yourself or start a conversation. I recommend walking up to her smiling, introducing yourself, and then asking her questions. There is great scene in the movie Swingers where John Faverou is being told by Vince Vaughn to approach this girl and that women know why Men approach them - it is true - no reason to hide your intenet - especially if all it is to have a conversation with her - I have talked and innocently flirted with many single and unavailable women. Don't ever get involved with another mans' wife or girlfriend as that is a sure way to find trouble but there are plenty of women you can still talk to that are unavailable and you should for two reasons.
1. It is always practice
2. They will often try and set you up with a single or mutiple single girlfriends - in other words they can supply you with girls to date and with a referral you are off to a great start with your date!
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